In the past few years, sex toys have made their way into more nightstand drawers than ever before. With so many options, it can be difficult to know where to begin.
We asked experts in sex and relationships for their advice on the best toys. Here are their top picks for clitoral stimulation and flexible internal vibes.
Gags
Sex toys are tools that people use to increase pleasure during masturbation, sex, or other sexual activities. They are often shaped like human genitalia, and can be vibrating or not. They are also sometimes known as erotic devices or the dated euphemism marital aids. People can buy sex toys such as the g spot vibrators in specialty stores called sex shops, sex stores, adult stores, or pornographic stores. In some countries, sex toys are also available in pharmacies or health stores.
Most sex toys are designed to be used by one person, but they can be used by multiple people. They are usually made of materials that are body-safe, like medical-grade silicon, stainless steel or glass. In some cases, sex toys are coated with an outer layer that is slick or slippery to enhance stimulation. Some sex products are designed to wear on the body.
People use sex toys for many different reasons, from self-gratification to pleasure during sex and masturbation to relief from pain from certain health conditions. They are often used in conjunction with lubricant, or other stimulating substances, to enhance the sensation of penetration or ecstasy.
There are many kinds of sex toys, and they can be found in all shapes, sizes, and materials. Some are made for the anal canal, while others are for vaginal penetrating. Dildos also come in different lengths and sizes, including C-shaped, G-shaped, and other shapes for double penetration. Some are made out of borosilicate, a durable, non-porous glass that is easy to sterilize. Some are designed with colors and textures to be as beautiful as they feel.
Spankers
Many people find spanking or corporal punishment to be a part of their kink. It’s a great method to get your bottom, and other areas of your body, aroused. But it takes a lot of skill.
Using your hand is a good place to start, but as you become more advanced you can invest in paddles that offer different sensations. A silicone paddle may feel more stingy while wood could feel thuddy. It’s important to know what you want to achieve and how you wish to end the scene.
Clit Stimulators
The clitoral ridge is one of the most sensitive regions of the vulva and it’s possible to get incredible pleasure by stimulating that area, especially with a vibration toy. These toys combine intense vibrations with gentle suction for a highly pleasurable experience. It’s recommended to use them with some lubricant, either natural or toy-safe, to reduce friction and the risk of skin tearing.
Many clitoral vibrators are designed with multiple stimulation settings and a petite or discreet size to make them more non-intimidating for those who are new to pleasure play. This mini wand by Bloomi, for example, is designed to target both the outer and inner clitoral area and the surrounding areas with a pair rabbit ears that can rotate to target different angles. This vibrate is water-resistant and offers several vibration levels and modes. It also has a rechargeable, long-lasting battery.
As with all vibrators it’s best if you start at a low setting or medium and gradually increase the intensity until you find what works for you. You can also experiment with different intensities and positions until you find the right one for you. Some people prefer a squeezing, tickling feeling while others prefer a general or targeted massage to the clitoral and vulva.
Clitoral stimulators are also helpful for women who have gone through menopause in maintaining their vaginal health. They can be used for self-pleasure alone or with a partner. They can also reduce sexual dysfunction among postmenopausal woman and encourage active sexual engagement. This can lead to better relationships and a higher quality of life.
Kegel Balls
Kegel balls can be small, weighted balls that people insert into their vagina. Some people use Kegel balls to strengthen their pelvic muscles, while others claim that they can increase sexual pleasure. Kegel balls come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials, so it’s important to find a set that is comfortable to use and easy to clean.
When using kegel balls, it’s best to start out slowly and work up to longer periods of time. Start by laying down in a position where you feel most comfortable, and then place the first ball inside your vagina. Make sure the ball is secure in your pelvic region and then apply a liberal amount of water-based lubricant to your vaginal opening before inserting the next ball.
Most kegel ball sets consist of two balls, but some have as many as four. Choose a set you can easily control. Remember that larger sets can be more uncomfortable if you’re new to this type of exercise. You may want to choose a set that has different weights, so you can gradually increase your strength.
Once you’ve mastered using kegels balls, you can start experimenting with ways to enhance the sensations they provide and your own pleasure. Try rubbing the vibrator on your clitoris as you hold the kegel ball, for example. Some kegel balls sets have vibrations to enhance the experience. Be careful not to move your kegel ball too much in your vagina, as this could cause pain and discomfort.